I am Mistress Valentina — elegant, hyper-educated, transgender/intersex, post-op, who has lived many lives. By my early thirties I had already served as CEO of a listed company; I know the corridors of power, the grind of responsibility, and the hollow victories of public success.
Now I work differently. With me, dominance is not a pastime — it is practice: a disciplined way of living that shapes how you stand, speak, and surrender. Intimacy with me is initiation into a world where feminine authority is the rule, not the exception. Expect attention sharpened by exacting standards, warmth braided with command, and encounters that leave you rearranged and steadier in your truth.
I am sexy and intimidating in equal measure — a presence that lingers long after we part. Conversation that clarifies, worship that steadies, the delicious unmaking of pride: I offer experiences impossible to copy.
I accept only those who understand presence, respect, and devotion. My time is deliberate and limited. If you seek an encounter that is sensual, transformative, and sovereign, apply with intent. If chosen, you will find me exacting, generous, and unforgettable.
Personal Details
Availability
Incall Rates
The type of space we use depends on your desires for the session. If you are a first time booker, we will have a video call as part of the booking process and we can discuss this. FLINTA discounts apply
Outcall Rates
I am happy to come to you provided it is not our first date. FLINTA discounts apply
Touring Rates
Longer dates are preferable including multi-day. 8 hours of sleep and occasional down time are required
Virtual Rates
I have long-term monthly arrangements with a handful of clients as well as sporadic chat charges. The retained option is something we might move to once we know each other well, and we find that a deeper level of control/submission is desired. This can cover everything from daily to weekly chat, control mechanisms over your life and phone, finances, etc. Sexy chat is also a lower key option.
Tours
Policies
Deposits
50% at the time of booking, and 50% paid following an intro call and confirmed booking for first time clients. After we have seen each other, the balancing payment can be made by cash or wire at the booking or just before.
Screening
Mutual discretion is paramount. I do not retain information for both of us. I will expect some basics from you which is typical of this profession.
Cancellations
Please read the policies on my site for specifics. I try to be accommodating to life circumstances, but also recognise that arrangements get made, time gets booked, and the closer we are to session time, the less likely I will be able to make allowances. Keep me informed about changes in plans and I will do my best to accommodate. My official policies are on my website.