A few lines never tell the whole story, but they can give a sense of someone, I hope this does.
My style is discreet and low key, the sort you notice more the longer you look. I’ve grown into myself in my thirties, more at ease in my body, more humour about life, a clearer sense of what I want, and, crucially, the confidence to ask for it.
I’m active day to day and keep my look natural. I prefer minimal makeup, let my hair do as it will, and keep the level of effort light, so there’s more of me in the room. I don’t like to seek attention, though I can’t say I go unnoticed.
What I enjoy most is time that feels both easy and charged, with conversation that draws you in, laughter that catches us off guard, and attraction that either arrives immediately or grows with a little time. Someone’s mind, demeanour, and conduct matter enormously to how much I fancy someone; a conventionally attractive face and body hold very little interest to me if there’s nothing underneath.
I love a lunch that overruns, or dinners where the energy builds until it’s obvious we need to leave. I don’t like to rush intimacy, it’s far better when it unfolds at its own tempo. And I love to kiss, it’s how we find each other’s rhythm, for me it’s central to sensuality.
Outside of this, I have a full and busy life. By day I work in a field that requires focus and steady judgement. It’s fulfilling and keeps me sharp, but life has always meant more to me than just work. I love cooking for people I love, galleries, the opera, and travelling when I can. I swim outdoors even in winter and masochistically endure painful Mandarin lessons. I like the discipline of some things and the freedom of others. It’s a balance I’ve learned to keep, structure and pleasure side by side.
I’m authentic, intelligent, and very present. I don’t perform and I don’t pretend, and I hope to make you feel that you don’t have to either. I like encounters where we both feel safe enough to allow the other to see us clearly, encounters you don’t want to end, and find yourself thinking about like the future.
There’s more writing on my website, if you’d like to know me better.
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Booking
I need all the information listed on my contact form in order to consider a meet. I get so many half completed submissions, which I unfortunately do not have the capacity to reply to. First impressions mean a lot, so tell me a little about who you are, where, when and what you’d like to do, and I’ll be more than happy to talk!
Deposits
As I have a job. deposits are required for all bookings to protect my time. These are none refundable, except in the case I need to cancel. However, they may be transferred to another date with sufficient notice.
Screening
For my safety screening is required in order for me to meet you. ID, Linked In, or a work email are accepted. References from providers I know personally and a bank transfer deposit may be accepted at my discretion.
Cancellations
Deposit may be transferred once to another date with 5 days notice. However if I have availability I will try to accommodate you, unless it’s with 24 hours.
In the rare case I have to cancel, I will of course refund you, but also ill do my best to help you find another provider, and offer extra time if you choose to rebook in the future.
