Hello, I’m Sadie. A few lines never tell the whole story, but I’ll try to give you a sense of me.

My style is discreet, the kind you notice more the longer you look. I’ve grown into myself in my thirties, with more ease in my body, more humour about life, a sharper idea of what I want, and more confidence to ask for it. I’m blonde, with slightly unruly hair I usually leave as it is. I look after myself, but I like to keep it natural, less effort, more me. I don’t seek attention, though I rarely go unnoticed.

What I enjoy most is the kind of time that feels both easy and charged: talk draws you in, laughter catches us off guard, and attraction is there from the start but still keeps surprising us. A lunch that overruns, a dinner where the spark builds until it becomes obvious we need to leave. I don’t like to rush intimacy; it’s better when it grows naturally. I love to kiss, it’s how I find someone’s rhythm, how desire deepens.

By day I work in a field that needs focus and steady judgement. It keeps me sharp, but life for me has always been more than work. I love cooking for loved ones, visiting galleries, the opera, travelling when I can. I swim outdoors even in winter and masochistically endure Mandarin lessons. I like the discipline of some things and the freedom of others. It’s a balance I’ve learned to keep, structure and pleasure side by side.

I’m authentic, intelligent, and very present. I don’t perform, and I don’t pretend. I like encounters that feel rare, when we both see each other clearly, encounters you don’t want to end.